Listen to your body. Be honest with yourself. Learn to say no with compassion. Sex is often scripted. Kissing, touching, maybe oral, intercourse then orgasm. You want to break this mold. Because it comes with expectations. What should you do instead? Learn to regularly touch your husband and let him touch you without going for sex.
That you can enjoy it without having to perform for him. In short, you want to become the star of the show instead of his orgasm.
Instead, you want to take your time. What are the aspects of femininity that you hate in other women? Look at these and see if you can let go of this resistance. This process is very important and very deep. You also want to dive into your sexuality and the beliefs you hold around it. For example, a lot of women have rape fantasies. The more you can embrace all of you, the more at peace you are with your femininity.
And the more the sexual energy can flow, the easier it is for your husband to dance with you. Women are drawn to strong and powerful men. That makes sense, as a man in power is more capable of guaranteeing the survival of their offspring. Start focusing on his strength and tell him what he does well. You in turn keep pointing out all the great qualities he has. It becomes an upward spiral where he gains more confidence because of your encouragement. And believe me, so many underestimate the power they have to make or break the confidence of their man.
The other thing you can do is to start questioning the thoughts you have about him. This story is filtering your perception of him. The more you can clear out this story, the more you can meet the man himself. Instead of doing everything yourself, start asking for his help and input. You see, one of the major issues couples face today is gender equality. This is how you make yourself attracted to your husband again! So what can you do to heal the sexual connection between you and your husband?
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But to assume you can easily sustain those feelings year after year is wishful thinking. Moyo Studio via Getty Images. You stop interacting like romantic partners. PeopleImages via Getty Images. Was it a gradual or sudden loss of attraction? What happened before you noticed the shift? You know that moment: After a long day at work, your partner comes by and squeezes your shoulders or rubs your lower back.
Maybe they light a small fire — but then you remember your alarm is going off at 5 a. Fire squashed. Remember why you were attracted to them in the first place and recreate some of the experiences you had when you first met. After all, relationships have their ups and downs, and it's during these swings that love and interest in your partner can shift.
While you may not be able to restart your attraction overnight, if you believe your relationship is worth saving, it's important to try every solution, which includes couples therapy. Stephen J. Betchen, a marriage and family therapist, recommends individual appointments as well.
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